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Personal Commandments: The Guiding Principles that Shape My Life

In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it’s easy to get caught up in the noise, forgetting what truly matters to us. That’s why I’ve created a set of personal commandments—simple yet powerful principles that guide my actions, decisions, and mindset. These commandments serve as my compass, helping me stay grounded and aligned with my core values, no matter what life throws my way.

In today’s post, I’m sharing the personal commandments that have shaped who I am and how I live. Whether you’re looking to find more clarity in your own life or simply seeking inspiration for creating your own guiding principles, I hope these can help you navigate the journey with intention and purpose.

Let’s dive into the commandments that help me stay focused, resilient, and true to myself.

  1. Done is Better Than Perfect – Strive for completion rather than perfection; progress matters more than flawlessness.
  2. Don’t Half-Ass Anything – Give your full effort to whatever you choose to do.
  3. Easy to Be Heavy, Hard to Be Light – Stay grounded and centered; don’t let life’s weight wear you down.
  4. Let It Go – Release grudges, mistakes, or things you can’t control.
  5. Listen to My Heart – Trust your intuition and follow what feels right deep inside.
  6. One In, One Out – Whether it’s material items, habits, or commitments, maintain balance by letting go of the old when you welcome the new.
  7. Quality, Not Quantity – Focus on depth, not how much you can do or have.
  8. Refuse to Lower Your Standards – Never settle for less than you deserve, and don’t accommodate others who refuse to raise their standards.
  9. You Are Kind, You Are Smart, You Are Important – Remind yourself of your worth and always treat yourself with the respect you deserve.
  10. Say No Without Guilt – Set healthy boundaries and protect your time and energy.
  11. Take Care of Yourself First – Prioritize self-care to show up as your best self.
  12. Choose Curiosity Over Judgment – Stay open-minded and seek to understand rather than judge.
  13. Do the Right Thing, Even When It’s Hard – Let integrity guide your actions, no matter the circumstances.
  14. Celebrate Small Wins – Take time to acknowledge progress, no matter how small.
  15. Ask for Help When You Need It – Don’t be afraid to lean on others for support.
  16. Gratitude Above All – Find things to be thankful for, even during challenging times

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